Between kids and his work and his being asleep in the living room chair, there is no communication. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. He is dealing with the aftermath of a failed suicide while I spend my time trying to keep busy at home.
Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. It does kick your butt!. I expected long hours and lots of call, which there are. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. I am trying to figure out how to go on in life and discover myself again.
I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. I know many of you understand how Im feeling and a lot of you have been there for many years already. It's in the Mormon DNA. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. I have plenty to do but I do it alone.
We might not always like the way some priesthood holders act, but to disparage the priesthood is not being responsible. How else could you go through 8 years of schooling and 3 years of residency without losing your mind. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all.
